What works for you?

02/11/16 . News

Do you hate your job?

That's the first question in #works4me, a new feature as part of the Forum's beatstress.uk service.

#works4me let's men talk about difficult situations they find themselves in and for the other men to make suggestions. Once again, it's totally anonymous. The Forum's beat stress team will read all the suggestions and post some of them online. New situations will be posted regularly.

A problem shared

Beat stress project manager Chris Stein said: 'You could say #works4me is based on the old saying that a problem shared is a problem reduced. The idea is that men can help each other out in an easy, anonymous and confidential way. You can say anything you want without getting any of the ridiculous advice or even abuse you sometimes see in other online settings.'

The easiest way to see how #works4me works is to visit the page.

I'm sure can we can all help Dave with his situation – after all, we've all had a job we don't like at some time or another. If you don't want to post this time, just sign up and we'll let you know when the next situation is online.

The Men’s Health Forum need your support

It’s tough for men to ask for help but if you don’t ask when you need it, things generally only get worse. So we’re asking.

In the UK, one man in five dies before the age of 65. If we had health policies and services that better reflected the needs of the whole population, it might not be like that. But it is. Policies and services and indeed men have been like this for a long time and they don’t change overnight just because we want them to.

It’s true that the UK’s men don’t have it bad compared to some other groups. We’re not asking you to ‘feel sorry’ for men or put them first. We’re talking here about something more complicated, something that falls outside the traditional charity fund-raising model of ‘doing something for those less fortunate than ourselves’. That model raises money but it seldom changes much. We’re talking about changing the way we look at the world. There is nothing inevitable about premature male death. Services accessible to all, a population better informed. These would benefit everyone - rich and poor, young and old, male and female - and that’s what we’re campaigning for.

We’re not asking you to look at images of pity, we’re just asking you to look around at the society you live in, at the men you know and at the families with sons, fathers and grandads missing.

Here’s our fund-raising page - please chip in if you can.

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